作词 : Combs, Garland, Garrett ... Can you feel me? I want her to feel it in her chest I want her to feel it in her soul I want her to lose control Mary, talk to 'em [Mary J. Blige: I Yeah I You takin' a part of me That I cannot set free See me lettin' go No this ain't the time I got too much livin' to do And I can't lose it over you So give me the flow I'll get my swagger goin' I'll say this is the year for me You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you [Diddy: Damn you been around and down to hold weight I know I make it hard to love me But trust me I could take you to places that you ain't never been Put you in purple labels and that Vera Wang Get your name engraved on a wedding ring I'ma love you better More than I ever did Cause baby girl listen since you been here with me can't even lie See the rider and your ambition Providin' me with the fire when you wet and drippin' Mama if you see if you different Go 'head and get it and I ain't sayin' if you leave me it'd be better but me and you together honey we could do whatever let's do it I made it hard I admit it it's true I need to hear somethin' I'm listenin' boo [Mary J. Blige: So make sure that speak sure things to prove I'm prepared to take it there for you Your lovin' kiss me nervous Ain't no perfect concept just me It's amazin'but it ain't enough Where I keep askin'I stay around For one, who share to split the cheese rewind to where remind it just for what it is Ho-ho-ho [Diddy: I know I'm hard to love Let's rock [Mary J. Blige: You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you [Diddy: Lemme talk to you one more time girl I know i'm always sayin' that I don't want you to hurt You try to complain but I was makin' it worse Besides all the games that I's kickin' at first It's time to explain My mind's been in reverse But now I think back When nobody cared And you was there just to roll by your man And came back Even know what I did I realize and I'm aware I know what it is Put that on everything Girl you my everything I don't know where I'd be Cause you the air I breath If lovin' is wrong who could be right I wouldn't know what to do without you in my life You're more to me than the world I pray The more nights for your heart to ache So right in the middle of the dawn of day I think of all the pain I caused and throw it away and say I need you in my life Can you feel it in your soul [Mary J. Blige: You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you [Diddy: I know it's hard to love me that don't mean that I don't love you Hey yo Rich! I love the way you got this Harlem singin' Mary take us home [Mary J. Blige: You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you You makin it so damn hard for me to love you [Diddy: King and Queen of Hip-Hop soul [Mary J. Blige: You makin it so hard for me to love you Yeah You Are [Diddy speaks: Yeah,um we, we met like you know i'm sayin maybe 12 years ago yeah we used work,we used to work the same job work that 'hotel MCA records together you know,um,shit i used to just like walk past her and not even really say nothing Then,then one day,one day our eye did meet though I mean i think the best way i can describe her is like,like she done really wanna make me smile you know, oh now every time i see her is like, is like the first time i saw her face That some people have the affect on you, I think God there he send me somebody, you know that truly loves me,you know. Yeah thats whassup.