[00:03.878]“one thing” [00:06.288]I came out here for “one thing” [00:09.748]And that little bitty “one thing” [00:12.987]Was to forget about you [00:16.772]But I guess I've learned something [00:20.534]That there's never really “one thing” [00:24.295]'cause pretty quickly “one thing” [00:27.859]Evolves into two, or three, or more [00:31.935]For example [00:32.735]See the light [00:33.804]In the hallway? [00:34.634]It was always flickering [00:36.519]Ever since I was little [00:38.135]It was always flickering [00:39.749]After three days here it was unbearable [00:43.266]My list grew [00:45.158]2. fix the light bulb [00:46.529]And 1. forget about you [00:52.715]Drove to town [00:53.553]Bought a bulb [00:54.366]One of those new LEDs [00:56.247]Brought it home [00:57.058]Put it in [00:57.895]But the wires weren't connecting [00:59.519]Suddenly they went on the fritz [01:03.015]My list grew [01:04.876]3. rewire the ceiling [01:06.475]2. fix the light bulb [01:08.089]And 1. forget about you [01:13.731]So I went [01:15.022]To the attic [01:16.074]And to my utmost delight [01:17.692]There it is [01:18.506]Black mold [01:19.620]Killing us slowly each night [01:21.488]And I feel it's my duty to remove it [01:24.448]My list grew [01:26.315]4. kill the black mold [01:28.200]3. rewire the ceiling [01:29.795]2. fix the lightbulb [01:31.706]And 1. forget about you [01:36.559]Judith: yeah, but my one thing [01:39.520]-Is really just -Jase: I'm not done. [01:41.423]See the tarp [01:42.221]In the hallway? [01:43.025]That used to be a gallery wall! [01:44.919]Lots of pictures [01:45.725]Super classy [01:46.521]Sad I had to make the call [01:48.122]But in scouring for mold I had to take the place apart [01:54.832]Because sometimes to solve a problem [01:59.391]You follow it back to the start [02:02.610]Judith: oh, who's that? [02:03.425]Jase: no one. it just does that when it rains! (crazed laugh) [02:08.301]When I tried to rebuild [02:09.926]The wall that I'd taken down [02:11.795]I discovered [02:12.620]Two holes burrowed right into the ground [02:15.299]And I didn't have the heart to kill them so [02:18.564]My list grew - [02:19.900]But then [02:20.688]The cement that I found [02:22.557]To fill in the gaping holes [02:24.168]Wasn't good [02:24.985]It didn't stick [02:25.786]Apparently cement can get old!? [02:28.177]In trying to fix one thing [02:30.081]I made everything worse [02:34.956]My list grew [02:36.825]9. buy new cement [02:38.451]8. take care of this duck I found [02:40.353]7. clean out the pipes for the bathroom and kitchen [02:43.652]6. rebuild the wall [02:45.783]5. keep out the pests [02:47.436]4. kill the black mold [02:49.063]3. rewire the ceiling [02:50.943]2. fix the lightbulb [02:52.581]And 1. forget about you [02:59.338]Judith: I think it's lovely [03:01.774]To see you fix up this old house [03:05.538]Because you want it to be [03:09.044]Nice for your family [03:12.247]But I think maybe you're obsessing [03:15.776]Over things you can control [03:18.715]Hoping to control [03:22.496]Your feelings for [03:23.590]Jase: what? no. no, no, no, no, no, no. [03:26.550]-Judith: So you came here -these things needed to get done. Okay. Okay. [03:30.085]-Looking for one thing -just, just, just stop moving Towards me, just stay on your side of the room, okay,- [03:33.019]-And you're saying that one thing -So we can talk this out. [03:36.499]-Was to forget about me? -no, listen, no- listen, if my moms are going to be so nice to have me out here [03:40.285]-Well all I am asking -and respect my need to be Alone during this really insane, [03:43.805]-Is for you to do the first thing -crazy, impossible time of my life, [03:47.309]-Which could also be the last thing -the absolute least I can do is, you know, just, just go around and, [03:50.806]-That you do with me -and...destroy their house. [03:54.619]Judith (cont'd): After tonight, you'll never hear from me again [03:56.504]if that's what you want. [03:58.130]everything we need to fix our marriage is inside this envelope. [04:01.945]I'm asking for one chance. [04:05.746]Both: we'll do this one thing [04:09.241]It is the first thing [04:12.504]We're doing together [04:16.556]Since -Judith: you left without saying a word -Jase: I found out you were not who I thought you were [04:20.619]Both: so we'll do this one thing [04:23.581]It could be the last thing