[00:00.202]Judith: when I was with you I was real
[00:05.011]When I was with you I could be myself
[00:10.328]When I was with you I didn’t feel
[00:13.980]Lost, confused, or frightened
[00:17.967]Or scared to be who I am
[00:21.183]When I was with you I was real
[00:35.031]We both think you look great in a knit sweater
[00:38.728]We both enjoy an empty cafe
[00:42.766]We both are actual human beings to waiters
[00:47.008]We both are not totally straight
[00:50.011]None of that changes
[00:53.188]None of that has changed.
[00:55.579]Okay?
[00:56.385]Jase (skeptical): okay.
[00:59.040]Judith: we both like drinking hot tea in warm weather
[01:03.027]We both like playing guitar
[01:07.266]We both like when you tell me the plots of bad movies
[01:11.247]We both forget our card at the bar
[01:14.433]Almost always
[01:17.638]When I was with you I was real
[01:21.910]When I was with you I could be myself
[01:25.637]When I was with you I was real
[01:28.548]Like as real as my retainer that I left at your house one time
[01:35.181]When I am with you I am real
[01:38.385]Judith (cont’d): now, do you remember what I said the first time
[01:39.978]We did the questions? about my perfect day?
[01:42.893]Jase: yes, you said that tomorrow could be the perfect day,
[01:45.559]If we let it be.
[01:47.402]Jase (cont’d): that’s not the kind of answer you forget, especially
[01:49.009]When the person answering it is wearing a low cut blouse.
[01:51.402]Judith: you thinking about my blouse?
[01:52.985]Jase (laughing): i’m remembering it. do you remember my answer?
[01:56.385]Judith: the broad strokes. a picnic in the park with your
[02:00.374]Family, a mini-muffin basket for lunch,
[02:03.823]Everyone getting together under a big blanket and
[02:05.688]Watching the entire third season of the office.
[02:08.078]Jase: still true.
[02:09.673]Judith: and i’d still want to be there with you.
[02:11.803]Judith (cont’d): question 5: “when was the last time you sang to
[02:14.463]Yourself? to someone else?”
[02:16.304]Jase: this afternoon, to henry.
[02:18.167]Judith: what about to yourself?
[02:19.494]Jase: he only stayed for half.
[02:21.298]Judith: the last time I sang was on my way over here in the car.
[02:24.751]Jase (incredulous): you sang? what did you sing?
[02:27.948]Judith: oh i’m gonna die out here
[02:30.587]Jase: oh that hit, I forgot about that one.
[02:32.454]Judith: yeah. and I think that counts as me singing to
[02:35.371]Someone else. ask me the next one.
[02:37.498]Jase: question 6: “if you were able to live to the age of
[02:39.633]90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life,
[02:44.973]Which would you want?”
[02:46.961]Judith: do you remember my answer?
[02:48.032]Jase: body. do you remember mine?
[02:50.043]Judith: mind. see? nothing has changed.
[02:53.242]We’re still a good half-sexy team.
[02:57.323]Question 7: “do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?”
[03:01.308]You said that you thought you were going to die in your car,
[03:03.946]But you weren’t sure how.
[03:04.744]Jase: right? and you said that you weren't afraid of death.
[03:06.635]Judith: and i’m still not. i’m only afraid of dying alone.
[03:08.803]Read the next one.
[03:09.861]Jase: question 8: “name three things you and your partner
[03:11.727]Appear to have in common.”
[03:13.778]Judith: easy.
[03:15.101]We both are super good at settlers of catan
[03:19.400]We both become monsters when we lose
[03:23.377]We both think we have the best worst name for a band
[03:27.647]We both check twitter for our news
[03:30.561]There’s four!
[03:31.897]Jase: we both say the other is better at cooking
[03:35.876]We both hate that kitchen island we built
[03:39.591]We both need a glass of water on the bedside table
[03:43.848]We both recycle purely out of guilt
[03:47.830]Both: we both have dreams much bigger than ourselves
[03:52.084]We both think that’s how to live
[03:56.064]We both put up a fight for all the right reasons
[04:00.052]And we both eventually give
[04:03.769]Jase: I tried so hard to separate
[04:05.638]Who you are from who you were
[04:07.744]But now i’m reevaluating
[04:09.615]How similar you are to her
[04:11.993]You have the same voice
[04:13.328]And the same cadence when you speak
[04:15.729]If I close my eyes
[04:17.320]You still sound to me like natalie
[04:22.392]When I was with you I was real (was I in love with natalie)
[04:26.390]When I was with you I could be myself (or who’s right in front of me?)
[04:30.358]When I am with you I can feel (i admit that I feel)
[04:34.345]Both: shivers running down my spine
[04:36.998]Your skin close to mine
[04:39.133]It’s like my five senses
[04:40.980]Make my heart defenseless
[04:46.073]With you
[04:48.986]When I am with you I am real (with you)
[04:52.972]When I am with you I am actually too real (with you)
[04:56.967]When I am with you everything feels so real