[00:10.690]For the longest time, I guess I thought [00:13.550]He didn't give a damn [00:16.180]Hard to read, hard to please [00:18.720]Yeah, that was my old man [00:21.340]On the day I left for college [00:24.070]It was nothing new [00:26.700]We never had that heart-to-heart [00:29.360]He had too much to do [00:32.920]He checked the air in my tires [00:35.980]The belts and all the spark plug wires Said [00:38.880]"When the hell's the last time " [00:41.470]You had this oil changed" [00:43.810]And as I pulled out the drive [00:46.580]He said "Be sure and call your mom sometime" [00:49.280]And I didn't hear it then But I hear it now [00:54.090]He was saying "I love you" [00:58.650]The only way he knew how [01:11.050]120,000 miles Six years down the road [01:16.010]A brand new life and a brand new wife [01:18.600]We'd just bought our first home [01:21.400]When he finally came to visit [01:24.050]I thought he'd be so proud [01:26.800]He never said he liked the place He just got his tool belt out [01:33.060]And put new locks on the doors [01:35.530]Went back and forth to the hardware store Said [01:38.890]"Come and hold this flashlight" [01:41.400]As he crawled beneath the sink [01:43.590]And "These old wires ain't up to code" [01:46.190]And "That circuit box is gonna overload" [01:49.360]And I didn't hear it then [01:51.290]But I hear it now [01:54.110]He was saying "I love you" [01:58.540]The only way he knew how [02:02.760]Last Sunday, we all gathered For his 65th birthday [02:08.020]And I knew he'd stiffen up [02:10.580]But I hugged him anyway [02:13.290]When it was finally time to say goodbye [02:16.690]I knew what was next [02:19.280]Just like he always does Right before we left [02:24.970]He checked the air in my tires [02:28.080]The belts and all the spark plug wires Said [02:31.030]"When the hell's the last time " [02:33.580]You had this oil changed" [02:35.680]And as I pulled out the drive [02:38.330]He said "Be sure and call your mom sometime" [02:41.320]And I didn't hear it then But I hear it now [02:46.070]He was saying "I love you" [02:51.340]He was saying "I love you" [02:55.860]The only way he knew how