Third mistake, poor delivery. One of the most important things in a conversation is not what you say, but how you say it. A change in these habits can make a big difference since your voice and body language is a vital part of communication. There are six things to think about. No.1 Slowing down. When you get excited about something, it's easy to start talking faster and faster. Try and slow down. It will make it much easier for people to listen and for you actually get what you are saying across to them. No.2 Speaking up. Don't be afraid to talk as loud as you need to for people to hear you. No.3 Speaking clearly. Don't mumble. No.4 Speak with emotion. No one listens for that long if you speak with a monotone voice. Let your feelings be reflected in your voice.


第三个错误,表达能力不强。在交谈中最重要的一件事是如何表达你要说的话，而不是你的说话内容。改变这些习惯会有很大的影响,因为你的语音和肢体语言是沟通过程中至关重要的部分。有6个事项需要注意:1、有话慢慢说。当你对某事感到兴奋的时候语速会越来越快。尝试说慢些。让你的听众更加容易听清并且你也会清楚自己向听众传达的内容。2、勇于发言。不要害怕大声说话,你需要让人们听到你的声音。3、表达清晰。说话不要含糊不清。4、说话带感情。没有人会一直听一个人用单调的声音说话。让你的感情在你的声音中有所体现。