[00:01.49]5 Mr Collins proposes twice5 [00:05.37]At Longbourn the next day, [00:09.19]soon after breakfast, [00:10.40]Mr Collins asked Mrs Bennet [00:12.79]for permission to speak prvately to Elizabeth [00:15.83]Mrs Bennet was delighted, [00:17.32]and hurried the other girls out of the room, [00:19.78]so that Elizabeth and Mr Collins [00:21.11]were left alone together. [00:23.89]Elizabeth did not want to stay, [00:26.7]and got up to leave, [00:27.25]but after a moment's thought, [00:29.52]sat down again quietly, [00:31.60]determined to listen and reply politely. [00:34.78]‘My dear Miss Elizabeth,“ [00:36.39]said Mr Collins seriously, [00:38.0]‘this little unwillingness to hear me,“ [00:41.39]this modesty of yours, [00:42.90]can only add to your other charms. [00:45.54]You can hardly doubt the purpose of my speech. [00:49.60]Almost as soon as I entered the house, [00:52.14]I chose you as the companion of my future life. [00:55.55]But before I am carried away by my feelings, [00:58.46]I think I should state my reasons for marrying. [01:01.95]Elizabeth was trying so hard not to laugh [01:05.84]at the idea of Mr Collins being carried away by his feelings [01:09.5]that she was unable to reply. [01:11.49]‘First,’he continued, [01:14.10]‘it is right for a priest to marry, “ [01:16.55]as an example to other people [01:18.67]Secondly,I'm sure marriage will [01:22.87]add greatly to my happiness, [01:25.35]and thirdly, [01:26.84]which perhaps I should have mentioned earlier, [01:29.86]my generous patron [01:31.23]has advised me to marry. [01:35.64]“Find an active,useful sort of person,” ‘ [01:37.44]she told me, [01:38.56]“a woman who can make a small income go a long way. ‘ [01:41.99]Bring her to Hunsford as your wife, [01:44.69]and I’ll visit her.” [01:46.31]So I decided to choose a wife from among my Bennet cousins, [01:50.50]to lessen the loss to the family when the sad event of your father's death takes place. [01:55.39]I flatter myself that you will appreciate my motives. [01:58.54]And now,nothing remains [02:01.38]but to convince you of the violence of my affection. [02:04.56]I am quite indifferent to the fact that you bring little money with you into our marringe, [02:10.6]and promise you that [02:11.42]I shall make no ungenerous reference to this after we are married.’ [02:14.62]It was absolutely necessary to interrupt him now. [02:18.53]‘Sir,you forget I have given no answer. “ [02:21.59]Accept my thanks for the compliment you are paying me, [02:24.96]but it is impossible for me to accept your proposal.’ [02:28.31]‘Of course I understand,’said Mr Collins,“ [02:32.7]‘that young ladies often do not accept a proposal of marriage the first time. “ [02:37.11]I am therefore not at all discouraged, [02:39.47]and sincerely hope we shall be married soon.’ [02:42.52]‘Sir,’cried Elizabeth,“ [02:44.69]‘your hope is rather extraordinary after what I've said! “ [02:48.33]I am perfectly serious. [02:50.42]You could not make me happy, [02:52.95]and I'm convinced I'm the last woman in the world who would make you happy. [02:57.30]And I'm sure that if Lady Catherine knew me, [03:00.40]she would find me poorly qualified for the situation.’ [03:03.20]‘If I knew Lady Catherine thought so—’“ [03:07.20]began Mr Collins,looking very worried. [03:09.82]‘But I cannot imagine she would disapprove of you. “ [03:12.38]And when I have the honour of seeing her again, [03:14.79]I shall certainly tell her how modest,economical and practical you are.’ [03:19.34]‘Indeed,Mr Collins,all praise of me will be unnecessary. “ [03:23.75]Pay me the compliment of believing what I say. [03:26.69]I hope you will be very happy and very rich, [03:29.84]but I cannot accept your proposal.’ [03:32.14]She got up and was going to leave the room, [03:35.27]but Mr Collins was speaking to her again. [03:37.94]‘I am far from accusing you of cruelty in refusing me,“ [03:41.54]as I know it is the custom with elegant ladies in society [03:45.0]to refuse a gentleman the first time. [03:47.48]I hope to receive a more favourable answer next time I speak to you of marriage.’ [03:52.16]‘Really,Mr Collins,’cried Elizabeth with some warmth,“ [03:55.62]‘you do puzzle me! ’ “ [03:57.47]I do not know how to express my refusal so that it convinces you! [04:02.13]‘You must allow me to flatter myself,dear cousin,“ [04:05.36]that you do not intend to refuse me for long. [04:08.50]My situation in life, [04:10.7]my connections with the de Bourgh family, [04:12.29]and my relationship to your own, [04:14.58]all make my proposal a very suitable one. [04:17.68]And you should remember that [04:20.50]in spite of your many admirable qualities, [04:22.19]it is not certain that you will receive any other offer of marriage, [04:25.43]as you have very little money of your own.’ [04:28.11]‘Sir,thank you again for the honour you have done me,“ [04:33.31]but to accept your proposal is absolutely impossible. [04:36.11]Can I speak plainer than that? [04:38.30]Don't think of me as an elegant female, [04:41.67]but as a thinking creature speaking the truth from her heart!’ [04:45.95]‘You are charming!he cried,“ [04:48.82]‘and I'm sure that when both your excellent parents agree,“ [04:52.42]you will accept my proposal!’ [04:54.84]Elizabeth did not reply, [04:58.0]but left the room silently, [05:00.11]determined to ask her father, [05:02.5]if necessary, [05:02.98]to make her refusal clear to the self-deceiving Mr Collins. [05:07.24]Mrs Bennet had been waiting eagerly for [05:11.74]the end of the interview, [05:14.24]and when she saw Elizabeth leave the room, [05:17.22]she hurried into offer her congratulations to Mr Collins. [05:17.68]He received them with pleasure, [05:19.74]adding that he was sure his cousin's refusal [05:21.42]was a natural result of her modesty and delicacy of character. [05:25.92]‘Refusal?’repeated Mrs Bennet,shocked. “ [05:28.90]‘Lizzy refused you?Do not worry,Mr Collins. “ [05:33.7]I shall speak to her at once. [05:34.98]She's a very obstinate,foolish girl, [05:37.20]but I’ll make her accept you. [05:39.19]‘Pardon me,madam,’cried Mr Collins,“ [05:42.4]‘but if she's really obstinate and foolish,“ [05:44.52]I do not think she would be a suitable wife for a man in my situation.’ [05:48.25]‘Sir,you quite misunderstand me,“ [05:51.48]’said Mrs Bennet, alarmed. [05:53.22]‘She's only obstinate in a matter like this. “ [05:56.11]In everything else she is very agreeable. [05:58.92]I’ll see Mr Bennet [06:00.83]and we’ll arrange it with her,I'm sure.’ [06:03.4]She did not give him time to reply, [06:05.95]but hurried to the library, [06:07.64]where she knew she would find her husband. [06:09.39]‘Oh,Mr Bennet,we need you urgently! “ [06:11.66]We're all in such confusion! [06:13.81]You must come and make Lizzy marry Mr Collins!’ [06:16.36]Mr Bennet raised his eyes from his book as she entered, [06:20.65]and stared at her with calm unconcern、 [06:22.93]‘I do not have the pleasure of understanding you,’“ [06:25.84]he said.‘What are you talking about?’ [06:29.4]‘Lizzy declares she won't have him,“ [06:32.69]and if you don't hurry, [06:33.51]he’ll change his mind and not have her.’ [06:35.67]‘So what should I do? “ [06:37.88]It seems a hopeless business.’ [06:39.36]‘Speak to her about yourself. “ [06:41.55]Tell her you insist on her marrying him.’ [06:44.21]‘Call her in here.She shall hear my opinion.’“ [06:47.42]Mrs Bennet gladly rang the bell, [06:50.58]and the servant brought Elizabeth into the library. [06:52.75]‘Come here,child, [06:55.7]said her father as she appeared. [06:56.99]‘I've sent for you on a very important matter. “ [07:00.1]I understand that Mr Collins has made you an offer of marriage, [07:04.59]and you have refused?’ [07:06.2]When Elizabeth nodded,he continued, [07:09.26]Very well. Now,your mother insists on your accepting. “ [07:14.27]Isn't that right, Mrs Bennet?’ [07:16.22]‘Yes,or I’ll never see her again.’“ [07:19.14]‘You now have an unhappy choice to make,Elizabeth. “ [07:23.1]From this day on, [07:25.2]you must be a stranger to one of your parents. [07:27.58]Your mother will never see you again if you do not marry Mr Collins, [07:31.86]and I will never see you again if you do.’ [07:34.63]Elizabeth could not help smiling, [07:37.51]but Mrs Bennet,who had been sure her husband supported her, [07:41.5]was very disappointed. [07:42.62]‘What do you mean,Mr Bennet? “ [07:44.41]You promised me you would insist on her marrying him.’ [07:47.57]‘My dear,’replied her husband,“ [07:51.24]‘I have two small requests to make. “ [07:54.70]First,that you will accept that I know what I promised or did not promise, [08:00.80]and secondly,that you will all leave me in peace as soon as possible.’ [08:06.28]That afternoon,Charlotte Lucas came to visit Elizabeth, [08:11.51]and found the family still in great confusion. [08:14.26]The younger girls were quite excited by the news of Mr Collins’proposal, [08:17.91]and Mrs Bennet was most annoyed with Elizabeth. [08:21.42]‘Oh dear Miss Lucas,’cried Mrs Bennet,“ [08:23.98]can't you persuade Elizabeth to accept Mr Collins? “ [08:26.81]Nobody else wants to help me!Oh,how ill I feel! [08:30.96]And look at Lizzy now!She's so unconcerned! [08:34.67]But I tell you,Miss Lizzy, [08:36.69]if you go on refusing every offer of marriage like this, [08:39.86]you’ll never get a husband at all! [08:41.75]And I won't be able to provide for you when your father is dead,I warn you now. [08:47.34]I told you in the library that I wouldn't speak to you again,and I won't. [08:51.83]I have no pleasure in talking to an undutiful child like you. [08:55.84]Not that I have much pleasure in talking to anybody,with my headaches. [09:00.76]Nobody knows how I suffer! [09:03.60]But of course those who do not complain are never pitied.’ [09:08.14]Her daughters listened in silence, [09:11.4]aware that any attempt to calm her would only increase her annoyance. [09:15.9]Elizabeth,however,was determined not to marry Mr Collins, [09:20.12]and in the end Mrs Bennet was obliged to accept that fact. [09:24.91]When Mr Collins realized that Elizabeth had meant what she said, [09:28.82]his manner towards her became coldly and stiffly polite. [09:32.49]His long speeches and flattering compliments were transferred for the rest of the day to kind Charlotte Lucas, [09:39.29]who took on herself the trouble of listening to him, [09:41.90]for which all the Bennets were very grateful. [09:44.63]The next day a letter was delivered to Jane from Netherfield [09:49.98]Elizabeth saw her sister's expression change as she read it, [09:53.72]and when they were alone, [09:55.50]she asked about it. [09:56.99]‘It's from Caroline Bingley,’said Jane,“ [09:59.30]‘and it has surprised me very much. “ [10:02.8]The whole party have left Netherfield, [10:04.95]and are on their way back to London, [10:06.95]probably for the winter. [10:08.68]They may not return to Netherfield at all. [10:11.22]She says the only thing she sincerely regrets is leaving me behind in Hertfordshire, [10:16.20]and promises!to write very frequently.’ [10:18.33]Elizabeth did not trust Miss Bingley's apparent affection for Jane. [10:22.39]‘I really don't think their departure matters very much,she said. “ [10:32.6]‘Mr Bingley won't be kept in London by his sisters. “ [10:34.94]I'm sure he’ll be back at Netherfield soon.’ [10:35.58]‘But perhaps he prefers to stay in London,“ [10:37.30]where many of his friends are. [10:40.61]But I haven't told you everything yet. [10:41.24]Let me read you the part which particularly hurts me—’ [10:43.85]Mr Darcy is impatient to see his sister, [10:47.71]and we confess we are also eager to see her again [10:50.53]Nobody is more beautiful,elegant or accomplished than Georgiana Darcy. [10:55.45]Louisa and I have great affection for her, [10:58.34]and hope one day to call her sister. [11:00.91]My brother admires her very much. [11:03.45]He will have frequent opportunities of seeing her, [11:06.42]and although I am his sister I must say I think [11:09.61]he is most capable of winning any woman's heart. [11:12.44]‘What do you think of this,dear Lizzy? “ [11:15.48]Isn't it clear enough? [11:16.96]Caroline doesn't wish or expect me to become her sister-in- law; [11:20.35]she's convinced of her brother's indifference towards me, [11:23.28]and,perhaps because she suspects my feelings for him, [11:26.60]she (most kindly!)warns me that he's very likely to marry someone else!’ [11:31.25]‘I have a totally different opinion. “ [11:34.31]Miss Bingley sees her brother is in love with you, [11:36.97]while she wants him to marry Miss Darcy. [11:39.0]We aren't rich enough or grand enough for them, [11:42.18]and she is eager to have a family connection with the Darcys, [11:45.23]so that it may be easier for her to marry Mr Darcy. [11:48.58]So she follows her brother to London, [11:51.15]hoping to keep him there, [11:52.29]and tries to persuade you [11:53.93]he doesn't care about you. [11:55.30]But of course he's in love with you!’ [11:57.21]‘I really can't agree with you about Caroline. “ [12:00.47]I think she's incapable of deceiving anyone. [12:03.25]But Lizzy,my dear sister, [12:05.35]even if she's wrong about her brother, [12:07.67]and he does care for me, [12:09.44]could I be happy in accepting a man whose sisters and friends all wish him to marry someone else?’ [12:14.78]‘You must decide for yourself,“ [12:18.11]and if you consider it more important to do what his sisters want,than to gain the happiness of being his wife, [12:23.50]I certainly advise you to refuse him.’ [12:26.30]‘How can you say that?’said Jane,smiling a little. “ [12:30.32]‘You know I wouldn't hesitate,“ [12:32.23]although I'd be sad if they disapproved of me. [12:35.10]But,oh dear,if he doesn't come back to Netherfield, [12:38.61]I’ll never have to make the decision!’ [12:41.20]But Elizabeth was sure Mr Bingley could not be kept away from Jane by his sisters, [12:46.66]and soon persuaded Jane to take a more hopeful view of the situation. [12:51.24]That day the Bennets,with Mr Collins, [12:55.26]went to dinner with the Lucas family at Lucas Lodge. [12:58.38]Again it was Charlotte who spent most of the evening listening to Mr Collins. [13:02.38]Elizabeth was very relieved, [13:04.80]and thanked her friend gratefully for the trouble she was taking. [13:08.27]But Charlotte's kindness had a particular aim, [13:12.99]which Elizabeth was unaware of. [13:14.25]Her plan was to encourage Mr Collins [13:17.10]to transfer his attentions to herself. [13:19.55]In fact, she was managing so well that, [13:22.83]when she said goodnight to him after dinner, [13:25.62]she would have felt sure of success if he had been staying in Hertfordshire for another week. [13:30.66]But she did not fully appreciate the fire and independence of his character, [13:35.68]which caused him to get up very early the next morning and escape from Longbourn House, [13:39.37]in a great hurry to reach Lucas Lodge and throw himself at her feet. [13:45.72]She did not keep him waiting for an answer, [13:48.64]and the happy couple found themselves engaged as quickly as Mr Collins’long speeches would allow. [13:54.20]Charlotte's parents were delighted to agree to the marriage, [13:58.32]and Lady Lucas began to work out,with more interest than she had ever felt before [14:02.45]how many more years Mr Bennet was likely to live. [14:04.81]Charlotte herself was quite satisfied. [14:08.19]Mr Collins,certainly, was neither sensible nor agreeable, [14:12.8]but still he would be a husband. [14:15.6]She did not think highly of men or of marriage, [14:18.57]but she had always intended to marry. [14:20.93]Although marriage might not always bring happiness, [14:23.76]it was the only honourable way in which a well-educated woman with little income could provide a home for herself. [14:31.65]Now twenty-seven, and lacking beauty, [14:34.33]she felt she was lucky to have found a husband. [14:37.38]She knew,however,that Elizabeth,whose friendship she greatly valued, [14:41.92]would be astonished and possibly disapproving. [14:44.73]So she decided to go to Longbourn House to tell her friend the news herself. [14:49.56]Elizabeth was indeed shocked at first, [14:53.74]and could not help crying out in surprise, [14:55.86]but when Charlotte explained her reasons for accepting Mr Collins, [14:59.40]Elizabeth tried hard to understand. [15:01.93]When the rest of the Bennet family heard the news,they were also astonished. [15:06.73]Mrs Bennet was quite horrified, [15:08.53]and could not stop complaining bitterly about Charlotte's wickedness, [15:12.93]Mr Collins'stupidity and Elizabeth's obstinacy. [15:16.39]Mr Bennet was much calmer, [15:18.68]only saying he was pleased to discover that Charlotte, whom he used to consider quite sensible, was as foolish as his wife, [15:25.88]and more foolish than his daughter! [15:27.49]That day was Mr Collins’last at Longbourn, [15:32.58]and he left with many speeches of thanks, [15:35.11]as well as a promise to return very soon. [15:37.39]Mr Bennet warned him to be careful [15:41.63]not to offend his patron, [15:43.99]by being absent from his duties too often, [15:45.98]but Mr Collins,although extremely grateful for this sign of Mr Bennet's cousinly affection for him, [15:50.43]was naturally eager to return to Hertfordshire, [15:53.7]to see his future wife. [15:55.37]Only two weeks later he did,in fact, [15:58.89]come back to stay at Longbourn, [16:00.49]but spent most of his time at Lucas Lodge, [16:02.54]making arrangements for the wedding., [16:04.81]Mrs Bennet still felt very offended by him, [16:08.54]but she was now becoming anxious about something even more important— [16:12.1]Mr Bingley's continued absence. [16:15.81]Day after day had passed with no news since the arrival of Caroline Bingley’ s letter. [16:20.95]Elizabeth was now rather worried, [16:23.87]and Jane feared the worst. [16:26.2]Finally a second letter arrived from Caroline Bingley, [16:30.15]and when Jane read it, [16:32.1]she realized that all hope was over. [16:34.37]The Bingley family were staying in London for the whole winter, [16:37.96]and Georgiana Darcy was a frequent member of their circle. [16:42.6]Miss Bingley boasted joyfully of this friendship, [16:45.48]and looked forward to her brother's probable marriage to Miss Darcy. [16:48.98]Although she was deeply upset, [16:51.83]Jane bravely tried to control her feelings. [16:55.20]‘Do not worry,Lizzy,“ [16:56.79]I shall be able to forget him in a while. [16:59.79]I have nothing to complain of, [17:02.23]as he made no promises to me. [17:04.11]I just thought he cared for me, [17:06.48]but I was wrong. [17:07.95]Luckily, no one is hurt except myself.’ [17:10.29]‘My dear Jane!’ said Elizabeth. “ [17:13.90]‘You are too good. “ [17:15.53]You always think the best of everybody. [17:17.91]Now I think the worst of most people, [17:20.8]and do not see much real value or common sense around me. [17:23.70]Mr Bingley, for example. [17:25.34]He may not be intending to hurt you, [17:27.60]but misery can be caused by someone being just weak and indecisive. [17:32.2]I'm convinced his sisters and his friend, Mr Darcy, are trying to influence him against you. [17:37.88]Another example is Charlotte. [17:40.36]I can't understand how she could agree to marry such a self-important, proud, silly man!’ [17:45.43]‘Dear Lizzy,’said Jane,“ [17:48.6]‘we must respect Charlotte's decision. “ [17:50.54]She may well be happy with Mr Collins. [17:53.10]And as for Mr Bingley, [17:57.6]we shouldn't expect a sociable young man to be so careful of his behaviour. [18:00.1]Women often imagine admiration means more than it really does.’ [18:04.19]‘And men want that to happen.’“ [18:07.49]‘I prefer to believe that I was mistaken in thinking he cared for me,“ [18:11.40]and that his sisters love him [18:14.27]and approve of his wish to marry Miss Darcy. [18:16.41]I don't want to think badly of him or his sisters. [18:19.23]That would be worse than anything.’ [18:21.68]Elizabeth had to accept Jane's wishes, [18:25.3]and from then on,Mr Bingley's name was seldom mentioned between them.