| Before I discovered this, I used to put incredible pressure on myself to deliver a perfect performance. I worked for days to prepare a talk. I stayed up nights worrying about making mistakes. I spent hours and hours rehearsing what I was going to say. And you know what? All this did was to make me even more anxious. The more perfect I tried to be, the worse I did. It was all very disheartening, not to mention unnecessary. The essence of public speaking is this: give your audience something of value. That's all there is to it. If people in your audience walk away with something of value, they will consider you a success. If they walk away feeling better about themselves, feeling better about some job they have to do, they will consider you a success. If they walk away feeling happy or entertained, they will consider their time with you worthwhile. | |
| 我在发现这个道理之前曾经为了一个完美的表现给自己施加了难以想象的压力。我曾花好多天准备一篇演讲。有好几个夜晚我彻夜未眠只是担心会犯错误。我花了好几个小时做演讲排练。然后你猜怎么着?这一切只让我更着急!我越是想做的完美,结果越是糟糕!没有比这更令人沮丧不过的了，先不说我没有必要这样做。公众演讲的本质，就是:给你的观众有价值的东西。这就是所有的东西。如果你的听众带走一些有价值的东西,他们会认为你的演讲是一个成功。如果他们离开时对自己以及他们不得不做的工作感觉良好，他们会认为你的演讲是一个成功。如果他们离开时感到快乐或享受,他们会认为这段时间很有价值。 |
| Before I discovered this, I used to put incredible pressure on myself to deliver a perfect performance. I worked for days to prepare a talk. I stayed up nights worrying about making mistakes. I spent hours and hours rehearsing what I was going to say. And you know what? All this did was to make me even more anxious. The more perfect I tried to be, the worse I did. It was all very disheartening, not to mention unnecessary. The essence of public speaking is this: give your audience something of value. That' s all there is to it. If people in your audience walk away with something of value, they will consider you a success. If they walk away feeling better about themselves, feeling better about some job they have to do, they will consider you a success. If they walk away feeling happy or entertained, they will consider their time with you worthwhile. | |
| wo zai fa xian zhe ge dao li zhi qian ceng jing wei le yi ge wan mei di biao xian gei zi ji shi jia le nan yi xiang xiang de ya li. wo ceng hua hao duo tian zhun bei yi pian yan jiang. you hao ji ge ye wan wo che ye wei mian zhi shi dan xin hui fan cuo wu. wo hua le hao ji ge xiao shi zuo yan jiang pai lian. ran hou ni cai zen me zhao? zhe yi qie zhi rang wo geng zhao ji! wo yue shi xiang zuo de wan mei, jie guo yue shi zao gao! mei you bi zhe geng ling ren ju sang bu guo de le, xian bu shuo wo mei you bi yao zhe yang zuo. gong zhong yan jiang de ben zhi, jiu shi: gei ni de guan zhong you jia zhi de dong xi. zhe jiu shi suo you de dong xi. ru guo ni de ting zhong dai zou yi xie you jia zhi de dong xi, ta men hui ren wei ni de yan jiang shi yi ge cheng gong. ru guo ta men li kai shi dui zi ji yi ji ta men bu de bu zuo de gong zuo gan jue liang hao, ta men hui ren wei ni de yan jiang shi yi ge cheng gong. ru guo ta men li kai shi gan dao kuai le huo xiang shou, ta men hui ren wei zhe duan shi jian hen you jia zhi. |
| Before I discovered this, I used to put incredible pressure on myself to deliver a perfect performance. I worked for days to prepare a talk. I stayed up nights worrying about making mistakes. I spent hours and hours rehearsing what I was going to say. And you know what? All this did was to make me even more anxious. The more perfect I tried to be, the worse I did. It was all very disheartening, not to mention unnecessary. The essence of public speaking is this: give your audience something of value. That' s all there is to it. If people in your audience walk away with something of value, they will consider you a success. If they walk away feeling better about themselves, feeling better about some job they have to do, they will consider you a success. If they walk away feeling happy or entertained, they will consider their time with you worthwhile. | |
| wǒ zài fā xiàn zhè gè dào lǐ zhī qián céng jīng wèi le yí gè wán měi dí biǎo xiàn gěi zì jǐ shī jiā le nán yǐ xiǎng xiàng de yā lì. wǒ céng huā hǎo duō tiān zhǔn bèi yī piān yǎn jiǎng. yǒu hǎo jǐ gè yè wǎn wǒ chè yè wèi mián zhǐ shì dān xīn huì fàn cuò wù. wǒ huā le hǎo jǐ gè xiǎo shí zuò yǎn jiǎng pái liàn. rán hòu nǐ cāi zěn me zhāo? zhè yī qiè zhǐ ràng wǒ gèng zháo jí! wǒ yuè shì xiǎng zuò de wán měi, jié guǒ yuè shì zāo gāo! méi yǒu bǐ zhè gèng lìng rén jǔ sàng bù guò de le, xiān bù shuō wǒ méi yǒu bì yào zhè yàng zuò. gōng zhòng yǎn jiǎng de běn zhì, jiù shì: gěi nǐ de guān zhòng yǒu jià zhí de dōng xī. zhè jiù shì suǒ yǒu de dōng xī. rú guǒ nǐ de tīng zhòng dài zǒu yī xiē yǒu jià zhí de dōng xī, tā men huì rèn wéi nǐ de yǎn jiǎng shì yí gè chéng gōng. rú guǒ tā men lí kāi shí duì zì jǐ yǐ jí tā men bù dé bù zuò de gōng zuò gǎn jué liáng hǎo, tā men huì rèn wéi nǐ de yǎn jiǎng shì yí gè chéng gōng. rú guǒ tā men lí kāi shí gǎn dào kuài lè huò xiǎng shòu, tā men huì rèn wéi zhè duàn shí jiān hěn yǒu jià zhí. |
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