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Another important subset regarding personal finance are those " intangible" things, such as learning to differentiate between need and want, delaying the gratification, and having an inner sense of value. These concepts can' t be taught in the classroom but only taught through oneself via selfdiscipline. The second is to communicate effectively. I know that sounds simple, but I' m sure you' ve met people in the workplace who don' t take the time to prepare when they speak with you and as a result, waste your time talking in circles when all you want to say to them is, " Can you take some time to think through what you want to say and come back to me later with that?" Communicating effectively is one of the most underrated, yet most powerful skills you can develop. The biggest part in communicating effectively is preparing what you want to say beforehand. Keep it simple. What' s my point? Why? Prepare a good example. Communicating effectively is one of the most underrated and most valuable skills a person can have. And let me tell you on a personal level, there' s nothing more refreshing than dealing with people who take the time to prepare what they have to say and back it up with clear examples. It' s a very rare skill nowadays. |
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gè rén lǐ cái zhōng, hái yǒu xiē zhòng yào de dōng xī shì" wú xíng" de, bǐ rú xué xí qū fēn xū yào de dōng xī hé xiǎng yào de dōng xī, tuī chí mǎn zú gǎn, bìng qiě yǒu yī zhǒng nèi zài de jià zhí gǎn. zhèi xiē sī xiǎng zài xué xiào shì méi yǒu rén jiào de, zhǐ yǒu tōng guò zì lǜ zì xué ér dé. dì èr diǎn shì yǒu xiào gōu tōng. wǒ zhī dào zhè tīng qǐ lái hěn jiǎn dān, dàn shì wǒ xiāng xìn nǐ kěn dìng yǒu yù dào guò zhè yàng de shì: yǒu xiē yǐ jīng gōng zuò de rén zài yǔ nǐ jiāo tán de shí hòu méi yǒu huā shí jiān qù zhǔn bèi jiāo tán de nèi róng, yīn cǐ, nǐ de shí jiān bèi làng fèi zài dōu quān zi shàng, zhè shí nǐ zhǐ xiǎng duì tā men shuō:" nǐ néng huā yī xiē shí jiān kǎo lǜ qīng chǔ nǐ jiū jìng xiǎng shuō shí mǒ, rán hòu wǒ men zài tán hǎo ma?" yǒu xiào gōu tōng shì zuì róng yì bèi dī gū de yī xiàng jì néng, rán ér tā què shì nǐ néng gòu péi yǎng de yī xiàng zuì yǒu lì de jì néng. wèi dá dào yǒu xiào gōu tōng zuì zhòng yào de shì shì xiān zhǔn bèi hǎo nǐ xiǎng shuō shí mǒ. biǎo dá jiǎn jié. wǒ shuō huà de yào diǎn shì shén me? wèi shí me? bìng qiě zhǔn bèi yí gè hěn hǎo de lì zi. yǒu xiào gōu tōng shì yí ge rén yōng yǒu de zuì róng yì bèi dī gū què yòu shì zuì yǒu jià zhí de jì néng. jiù wǒ gè rén rèn wéi, yí ge rén rú guǒ yǒu huā shí jiān zhǔn bèi xiǎng shuō de huà ér qiě néng yòng qīng chǔ de lì zi lái zhī chí zì jǐ suǒ shuō de huà, nà me méi yǒu shén me bǐ hé zhè yàng de rén xiāng chǔ lìng rén gèng shén qīng qì shuǎng de le. dāng jīn shè huì jiù shì tài quē fá yǒu zhè yàng de jì néng de rén. |