| No.5 Using pauses. Slowing down your talking plus adding a small pause between thoughts or sentences creates a bit of tension and anticipation. People will start to listen more attentively to what you're saying. No.6 Learn a bit about improving your body language as it can make your delivery a lot more effective. Read about laughter, posture and how to hold your drink in 18 ways to improve your body language. Fourth mistake, talking about a weird or negative topic. If you're at a party or somewhere where you are just getting to know some people, you might want to avoid some topics. Talking about your bad health or relationships, your crappy job or boss, serial killers, technical lingo that only you and some other guys understand or anything that sucks the positive energy out of the conversation are topics to steer clear from. You might also want to save religion and politics for conversations with your friends. | |
| 5、使用停顿。在思考或者说话的时候减慢你说话语速加上稍微的停顿能够产生一点紧张和期待。人们会更有兴趣的去听你在说什么。6、学着稍微改善你的肢体语言,因为它会帮你更有效地传达你的想法。读懂他人的微笑、姿势和学习拿酒杯的18种姿势来提高你的肢体语言。第四个错误,谈论一个奇怪的或负面的话题。如果你在一个聚会上或在某个地方你只认识了一些人,你可能想要避免一些话题。谈论你的糟糕的身体状况或者人际关系,你的蹩脚工作或者老板、连环杀手、只有你和其他一些人懂的技术术语，又或者谈论一些让谈话变消极的话题，这些都是应该避开的。还有避免和你的朋友们聊宗教和政治话题。 |
| No. 5 Using pauses. Slowing down your talking plus adding a small pause between thoughts or sentences creates a bit of tension and anticipation. People will start to listen more attentively to what you' re saying. No. 6 Learn a bit about improving your body language as it can make your delivery a lot more effective. Read about laughter, posture and how to hold your drink in 18 ways to improve your body language. Fourth mistake, talking about a weird or negative topic. If you' re at a party or somewhere where you are just getting to know some people, you might want to avoid some topics. Talking about your bad health or relationships, your crappy job or boss, serial killers, technical lingo that only you and some other guys understand or anything that sucks the positive energy out of the conversation are topics to steer clear from. You might also want to save religion and politics for conversations with your friends. | |
| 5 shi yong ting dun. zai si kao huo zhe shuo hua de shi hou jian man ni shuo hua yu su jia shang shao wei de ting dun neng gou chan sheng yi dian jin zhang he qi dai. ren men hui geng you xing qu de qu ting ni zai shuo shi mo. 6 xue zhe shao wei gai shan ni de zhi ti yu yan, yin wei ta hui bang ni geng you xiao di chuan da ni de xiang fa. du dong ta ren de wei xiao zi shi he xue xi na jiu bei de 18 zhong zi shi lai ti gao ni de zhi ti yu yan. di si ge cuo wu, tan lun yi ge qi guai de huo fu mian di hua ti. ru guo ni zai yi ge ju hui shang huo zai mou ge di fang ni zhi ren shi le yi xie ren, ni ke neng xiang yao bi mian yi xie hua ti. tan lun ni de zao gao de shen ti zhuang kuang huo zhe ren ji guan xi, ni de bie jiao gong zuo huo zhe lao ban lian huan sha shou zhi you ni he qi ta yi xie ren dong de ji shu shu yu, you huo zhe tan lun yi xie rang tan hua bian xiao ji de hua ti, zhei xie dou shi ying gai bi kai de. hai you bi mian he ni de peng you men liao zong jiao he zheng zhi hua ti. |
| No. 5 Using pauses. Slowing down your talking plus adding a small pause between thoughts or sentences creates a bit of tension and anticipation. People will start to listen more attentively to what you' re saying. No. 6 Learn a bit about improving your body language as it can make your delivery a lot more effective. Read about laughter, posture and how to hold your drink in 18 ways to improve your body language. Fourth mistake, talking about a weird or negative topic. If you' re at a party or somewhere where you are just getting to know some people, you might want to avoid some topics. Talking about your bad health or relationships, your crappy job or boss, serial killers, technical lingo that only you and some other guys understand or anything that sucks the positive energy out of the conversation are topics to steer clear from. You might also want to save religion and politics for conversations with your friends. | |
| 5 shǐ yòng tíng dùn. zài sī kǎo huò zhě shuō huà de shí hòu jiǎn màn nǐ shuō huà yǔ sù jiā shang shāo wēi de tíng dùn néng gòu chǎn shēng yì diǎn jǐn zhāng hé qī dài. rén men huì gèng yǒu xìng qù de qù tīng nǐ zài shuō shí mǒ. 6 xué zhe shāo wēi gǎi shàn nǐ de zhī tǐ yǔ yán, yīn wèi tā huì bāng nǐ gèng yǒu xiào dì chuán dá nǐ de xiǎng fǎ. dú dǒng tā rén de wēi xiào zī shì hé xué xí ná jiǔ bēi de 18 zhǒng zī shì lái tí gāo nǐ de zhī tǐ yǔ yán. dì sì gè cuò wù, tán lùn yí gè qí guài de huò fù miàn dí huà tí. rú guǒ nǐ zài yí gè jù huì shàng huò zài mǒu gè dì fāng nǐ zhǐ rèn shi le yī xiē rén, nǐ kě néng xiǎng yào bì miǎn yī xiē huà tí. tán lùn nǐ de zāo gāo de shēn tǐ zhuàng kuàng huò zhě rén jì guān xì, nǐ de bié jiǎo gōng zuò huò zhě lǎo bǎn lián huán shā shǒu zhǐ yǒu nǐ hé qí tā yī xiē rén dǒng de jì shù shù yǔ, yòu huò zhě tán lùn yī xiē ràng tán huà biàn xiāo jí de huà tí, zhèi xiē dōu shì yīng gāi bì kāi de. hái yǒu bì miǎn hé nǐ de péng yǒu men liáo zōng jiào hé zhèng zhì huà tí. |
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