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One police textbook recognized this when it advised the detective, while questioning the suspect, to sit quite close to him with no table or other obstruction between and to move even closer as the interrogation progressed. As a matter of fact, the degree of closeness can convey messages far subtler than a threat. The third part tells you how the distance reflects personal relationship. It neatly expresses the nature of any encounter. In fact there is a whole scale of distances, each felt to be appropriate in America for a particular kind of relationship. Contact to 18 inches apart is the distance for wrestling or lovemaking or for intimate talk, even a discussion of the weather becomes highly charged. At this range, people communicate not only by words but by touch, smell, body heat. Each is aware of how fast the other is breathing, of changes in the pallor or texture of the skin. |
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jǐng chá jiào kē shū fā xiàn zhè yī xiàn xiàng hòu biàn jiàn yì jǐng chá zài shěn wèn xián yí fàn shí, zuò dé lí tā hěn jìn, bù fàng zhuō zi huò zhě qí tā zhàng ài wù dǎng zài liǎng rén zhī jiān, ér qiě suí zhe shěn wèn de jìn xíng bù duàn bī jìn gāi xián yí rén. shì shí shàng, cóng qīn mì de chéng dù chú le fā xiàn wēi xié wài, hái kě yǐ kàn chū qí tā gèng yǐn mì de xìn xī. zài dì sān bù fèn, wǒ jiāng gào sù nǐ jù lí rú hé fǎn yìng gè rén guān xì. tōng guò jù lí kě yǐ kàn chū nǐ hé nǐ yù jiàn de rén zhī jiān de guān xì jiū jìng hǎo bù hǎo. qí shí yì bān lái shuō, jù lí zài měi guó rén kàn lái dōu jué de shì shì dàng de, yīn wèi tā fǎn yìng le mǒu zhǒng tè shū guān xì zhè jù fān yì zǒng jué de bù shùn.. bù zhī dào yǒu mù yǒu hǎo de jiàn yì dā. 18 yīng cùn de jù lí de jiē chù wèi shuāi jiāo huò xìng ài huò qīn mì de jiāo tán, shèn zhì shì tǎo lùn jìn rù bái rè huà jiē duàn. zài zhè gè fàn wéi nèi, rén men chú le tōng guò yán yǔ yě kě yǐ tōng guò chù jué xiù jué hé tǐ rè jìn xíng jiāo liú měi yí ge rén dōu zhī dào duì fāng de hū xī yǒu duō kuài, yǐ jí liǎn sè biàn huà hé biǎo qíng biàn huà. |