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The most frequently expressed complaint women have about men is that men don' t listen. A man completely ignores her when she speaks, assesses what' s bothering her, and then he offers her a solution to make her feel better. No matter how many times she tells him that he' s not listening, and he keeps doing the same thing. She wants sympathy, but he thinks she wants solutions. The most frequently expressed complaint men have about women is that women are always trying to change them. When a woman loves a man, she feels responsible to assist him improve the way he does things. No matter how much he resists her help, she persists. She thinks she' s nurturing him, while he feels he' s being controlled. Martians value power, competency, efficiency, and achievement. Achieving goals is very important to a Martian, because it' s the way for him to prove his competence and thus feel good about himself. |
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nǚ rén bào yuàn nán rén zuì duō de dì fāng shì nán rén bú huì qīng tīng. dāng nǚ rén shuō huà shí, nán rén wán quán bù lǐ bù cǎi, sī kǎo yī xià kùn rǎo nǚ rén de wèn tí, rán hòu pāo gěi nǚ rén yí gè jiě jué de bàn fǎ yǐ ān wèi tā jiù suàn wán shì. wú lùn nǚ rén bào yuàn duō shǎo cì, shuō nán rén méi yǒu qīng tīng, tā yī rán wǒ xíng wǒ sù. nǚ rén xū yào tóng qíng, kě nán rén zǒng yǐ wéi tā xū yào de shì jiě jué bàn fǎ. nán rén zuì cháng bào yuàn de shì nǚ rén zǒng shì tú gǎi biàn tā men. dāng nǚ rén ài shàng yī ge nán rén shí, tā biàn jué de bāng zhù tā gǎi jìn zuò shì de fāng shì shì zì jǐ de zé rèn. wú lùn nán rén zěn yàng jù jué tā de bāng zhù, nǚ rén dōu yī zài jiān chí. nǚ rén rèn wéi zì jǐ shì zài tiáo jiào nán rén, ér nán rén què jué de zì jǐ bèi kòng zhì le. nán rén chóng shàng quán lì gè rén néng lì xiào lǜ hé chéng gōng. duì tā men ér yán, shí xiàn mù biāo fēi cháng zhòng yào, yīn wèi zhè néng zhèng míng tā men zì shēn de néng lì, ràng tā men gǎn jué liáng hǎo. |