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In order to grow, to travel new roads, people need to have a willingness to take risks, to confront the unknown, and to accept the possibility that they may ' fail' at first. How we see ourselves as we try a new way of being is essential to our ability to grow. Do we perceive ourselves as quick and curious? If so, then we tend to take more chances and to be more open to unfamiliar experiences. Do we think we' re shy and indecisive? Then our sense of timidity can cause us to hesitate, to move slowly, and not to take a step until we know the ground is safe. Do we think we' re slow to adapt to change or that we' re not smart enough to cope with a new challenge? Then we are likely to take a more passive role or not try at all. These feelings of insecurity and selfdoubt are both unavoidable and necessary if we are to change and grow. If we do not confront and overcome these internal fears and doubts, if we protect ourselves too much, then we cease to grow. We become trapped inside a shell of our own making. |
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wèi le chéng zhǎng, wèi le tàn suǒ xīn lù, rén men xū yào lè yì qù mào xiǎn, qù yǒng gǎn miàn duì wèi zhī shì wù, qù jiē shòu tā men yě xǔ huì yī kāi shǐ jiù" shī bài" de kě néng xìng. dāng wǒ men cháng shì yī zhǒng xīn de shēng cún fāng shì shí, wǒ men rú hé kàn dài zì jǐ duì wǒ men de chéng zhǎng de néng lì zhì guān zhòng yào. wǒ men rèn wéi zì jǐ mǐn jié yǒu hào qí xīn ma? rú guǒ shì de huà, nà wǒ men wǎng wǎng huì zhuā zhù gèng duō de jī huì, gèng yuàn yì qù tǐ yàn bù shú xī de shì qíng. wǒ men rèn wéi zì jǐ miǎn tiǎn yōu róu guǎ duàn ma? nà wǒ men de xiū qiè gǎn huì shǐ wǒ men yóu yù bù jué xíng dòng huǎn màn, bú dào wàn wú yī shī jué bù mài bù. wǒ men rèn wéi zì jǐ shì yìng biàn huà hěn màn qiě duì fù xīn tiǎo zhàn yě bù gòu jī mǐn ma? nà me wǒ men jí kě néng huì chǔ shì jiào bèi dòng huò zhě gēn běn jiù bù cháng shì. wǒ men ruò xiǎng gǎi biàn zì jǐ yǒu suǒ chéng zhǎng, zhèi xiē bù ān quán gǎn hé zì wǒ huái yí jì wú fǎ bì miǎn yě hěn yǒu bì yào. rú guǒ wǒ men bù qù miàn duì bìng kè fú zhèi xiē nèi xīn de kǒng jù hé yí huò, rú guǒ wǒ men guò duō dì bǎo hù zì jǐ, nà wǒ men jiù yí dìng huì tíng zhǐ chéng zhǎng. wǒ men huì xiàn jìn zì jǐ yíng zào de láo lóng lǐ miàn. |