[00:01.28] | 我有一个好朋友, |
[00:03.69] | 有一天我们突然听说 |
[00:05.16] | Ta被羁押禁见(台湾法律词汇), |
[00:09.77] | 不管Ta是清白的或者是有罪的, |
[00:15.06] | 因为发生在Ta的身上, |
[00:17.25] | 才让我张开眼睛看到了 |
[00:18.98] | 所谓的羁押的过程以及它的整个制度。 |
[00:25.15] | 我发现,在司法的公正和独立上 |
[00:29.77] | 好像还有很多可做的事情。 |
[00:32.58] | 但是,不管怎么样, |
[00:34.86] | 在当时无法跟Ta沟通 |
[00:37.97] | 也无法给Ta带来任何温暖的时候, |
[00:41.83] | 我就透过这篇文章来给Ta一点支持。 |
[00:46.67] | |
[00:48.50] | 《跌倒——寄K》 |
[00:53.40] | 不久以前,有一个新闻震动了整个香港, |
[00:58.69] | 一个不堪坎坷的母亲, |
[01:01.36] | 把她十岁多一点的两个孩子捆绑了手脚, |
[01:06.52] | 从很高的楼上拋落,然后自己跳下去。 |
[01:12.73] | 今天早上台湾的新闻, |
[01:15.51] | 说是有一个十五岁的国三学生 |
[01:19.69] | 在他自己学校的厕所里, |
[01:21.89] | 用一个塑胶袋套在自己头上,自杀了。 |
[01:27.70] | 读到这样的新闻, |
[01:29.60] | 我总不忍得去读细节。 |
[01:32.69] | 掩上报纸,走出门, |
[01:36.12] | 灰蒙蒙的天,下着细雨。已经连下了三天的雨, |
[01:42.44] | 早上醒来时,看向窗外, |
[01:45.22] | 浓浓的雾紧紧锁住了整个城市。 |
[01:50.97] | 这个十五岁的孩子,在他人生最后的三天里头, |
[01:56.45] | 所看见的是一个灰蒙蒙、湿淋淋、寒气沁人的世界。 |
[02:03.24] | 这黯淡的三天之中, |
[02:05.97] | 有没有人拥抱过他? |
[02:08.56] | 有没有人抚摸过他的头发,对他说:“孩子,你好可爱”? |
[02:14.88] | 有没有人跟他同走一段回家的路? |
[02:19.63] | 有没有人发简讯给他,约他这个周末去踢球? |
[02:24.59] | 有没有人对他微笑过, |
[02:26.69] | 然后重重地拍他肩膀说:“没关系啊,这算什么呢?” |
[02:32.53] | 有没有人跟他在MSN上跟他聊过天、开过玩笑? |
[02:37.63] | 有没有人他发过一则简讯,说:“嘿,你今天怎么了?” |
[02:44.27] | 在那个三天之中, |
[02:46.31] | 有没有哪一个人的名字被他写在笔记本里, |
[02:49.79] | 他曾经一度动念想去和对方痛哭一场? |
[02:55.46] | 有没有某一个电话号码被他输入手机, |
[02:59.87] | 他曾经一度犹豫要不要, |
[03:03.56] | 要不要拨那个电话去说一说心里的害怕? |
[03:11.33] | 那天早上十五岁的他决绝地出门之前, |
[03:17.37] | 桌上有没有早点?厨房里有没有声音? |
[03:23.52] | 从家门到校门的一路上, |
[03:26.77] | 有没有一句轻柔的话、 |
[03:29.04] | 一个温暖的眼神, |
[03:30.49] | 使他留恋,使他动摇? |
[03:35.49] | 我想说的是,K,在我们整个成长的过程里, |
[03:40.39] | 谁,教过我们怎么去面对痛苦、挫折和失败? |
[03:47.70] | 它不在我们的家庭教育里, |
[03:50.27] | 它不在小学、中学、大学的教科书或者课程里, |
[03:55.05] | 它更不在我们的大众传播里。 |
[03:59.14] | 家庭教育、学校教育、社会教育 |
[04:02.03] | 只教我们如何去追求卓越, |
[04:05.00] | 从砍樱桃的华盛顿、悬梁刺骨的张秦 |
[04:10.71] | 到平地起楼的比尔盖茨,都是成功的典范。 |
[04:16.35] | 而且即使是谈到失败, |
[04:18.54] | 目的只是要你绝地反攻, |
[04:21.16] | 再度追求出人头地, |
[04:23.35] | 譬如越王勾践的卧薪尝胆,洗雪耻辱, |
[04:28.48] | 譬如哪个战败的国王看见蜘蛛如何结网,它的不屈不挠。 |
[04:36.87] | 我们拼命地学习如何成功冲刺一百米, |
[04:40.62] | 但是没有人教过我们: |
[04:42.42] | 譬如说你跌倒的时候,怎么跌得有尊严; |
[04:48.51] | 你的膝盖破得血肉模糊的时候, |
[04:52.33] | 怎么清洗自己的伤口、怎么包扎; |
[04:57.22] | 你痛得无法忍受的时候, |
[04:58.98] | 用什么样的表情去面对别人; |
[05:03.39] | 你一头栽下的时候, |
[05:05.69] | 怎么治疗内心淌血的创痛, |
[05:09.14] | 怎么获得心灵深层的平静, |
[05:14.25] | 在你的心像玻璃一样碎了一地的时候,你怎么收拾? |
[05:22.42] | 谁教过我们,在跌倒的时候, |
[05:25.59] | 怎样的勇敢才真正有用? |
[05:29.46] | 什么样的智慧才能度过? |
[05:32.97] | 跌倒,又怎么样可以变成走得更远的力量? |
[05:39.19] | 失败,为什么往往可以变成人生的修行? |
[05:46.27] | 为什么跌倒过的人,更深刻,而且更真诚? |
[05:53.92] | 我们都没有学过。 |
[05:57.85] | 我在想,如果这个社会曾经 |
[06:00.46] | 给那个十五岁的孩子上过这样的课程, |
[06:04.85] | 会不会他留恋我们,以及我们头上那片蓝色的天 |
[06:11.00] | 那样的机会是不是多一点点? |
[06:15.00] | 现在K你也跌倒了。你的修行开始。 |
[06:22.26] | 在你与世隔绝的修行室外, |
[06:26.07] | 有很多人希望捎给你一句轻柔的话、 |
[06:30.13] | 一个温暖的眼神、 |
[06:32.89] | 一个结实的拥抱, |
[06:36.45] | 我们都在这里,等着你。 |
[06:39.26] | 可是修行的路总是孤独的, |
[06:42.97] | 因为智慧必然是来自孤独。 |
[00:01.28] | wo you yi ge hao peng you, |
[00:03.69] | you yi tian wo men tu ran ting shuo |
[00:05.16] | Ta bei ji ya jin jian tai wan fa lv ci hui, |
[00:09.77] | bu guan Ta shi qing bai de huo zhe shi you zui de, |
[00:15.06] | yin wei fa sheng zai Ta de shen shang, |
[00:17.25] | cai rang wo zhang kai yan jing kan dao le |
[00:18.98] | suo wei de ji ya de guo cheng yi ji ta de zheng ge zhi du. |
[00:25.15] | wo fa xian, zai si fa de gong zheng he du li shang |
[00:29.77] | hao xiang hai you hen duo ke zuo de shi qing. |
[00:32.58] | dan shi, bu guan zen me yang, |
[00:34.86] | zai dang shi wu fa gen Ta gou tong |
[00:37.97] | ye wu fa gei Ta dai lai ren he wen nuan de shi hou, |
[00:41.83] | wo jiu tou guo zhe pian wen zhang lai gei Ta yi dian zhi chi. |
[00:46.67] | |
[00:48.50] | die dao ji K |
[00:53.40] | bu jiu yi qian, you yi ge xin wen zhen dong le zheng ge xiang gang, |
[00:58.69] | yi ge bu kan kan ke de mu qin, |
[01:01.36] | ba ta shi sui duo yi dian de liang ge hai zi kun bang le shou jiao, |
[01:06.52] | cong hen gao de lou shang pao luo, ran hou zi ji tiao xia qu. |
[01:12.73] | jin tian zao shang tai wan de xin wen, |
[01:15.51] | shuo shi you yi ge shi wu sui de guo san xue sheng |
[01:19.69] | zai ta zi ji xue xiao de ce suo li, |
[01:21.89] | yong yi ge su jiao dai tao zai zi ji tou shang, zi sha le. |
[01:27.70] | du dao zhe yang de xin wen, |
[01:29.60] | wo zong bu ren de qu du xi jie. |
[01:32.69] | yan shang bao zhi, zou chu men, |
[01:36.12] | hui meng meng de tian, xia zhe xi yu. yi jing lian xia le san tian de yu, |
[01:42.44] | zao shang xing lai shi, kan xiang chuang wai, |
[01:45.22] | nong nong de wu jin jin suo zhu le zheng ge cheng shi. |
[01:50.97] | zhe ge shi wu sui de hai zi, zai ta ren sheng zui hou de san tian li tou, |
[01:56.45] | suo kan jian de shi yi ge hui meng meng shi lin lin han qi qin ren de shi jie. |
[02:03.24] | zhe an dan de san tian zhi zhong, |
[02:05.97] | you mei you ren yong bao guo ta? |
[02:08.56] | you mei you ren fu mo guo ta de tou fa, dui ta shuo:" hai zi, ni hao ke ai"? |
[02:14.88] | you mei you ren gen ta tong zou yi duan hui jia de lu? |
[02:19.63] | you mei you ren fa jian xun gei ta, yue ta zhe ge zhou mo qu ti qiu? |
[02:24.59] | you mei you ren dui ta wei xiao guo, |
[02:26.69] | ran hou chong chong di pai ta jian bang shuo:" mei guan xi a, zhe suan shen me ne?" |
[02:32.53] | you mei you ren gen ta zai MSN shang gen ta liao guo tian kai guo wan xiao? |
[02:37.63] | you mei you ren ta fa guo yi ze jian xun, shuo:" hei, ni jin tian zen me le?" |
[02:44.27] | zai na ge san tian zhi zhong, |
[02:46.31] | you mei you na yi ge ren de ming zi bei ta xie zai bi ji ben li, |
[02:49.79] | ta ceng jing yi du dong nian xiang qu he dui fang tong ku yi chang? |
[02:55.46] | you mei you mou yi ge dian hua hao ma bei ta shu ru shou ji, |
[02:59.87] | ta ceng jing yi du you yu yao bu yao, |
[03:03.56] | yao bu yao bo na ge dian hua qu shuo yi shuo xin li de hai pa? |
[03:11.33] | na tian zao shang shi wu sui de ta jue jue di chu men zhi qian, |
[03:17.37] | zhuo shang you mei you zao dian? chu fang li you mei you sheng yin? |
[03:23.52] | cong jia men dao xiao men de yi lu shang, |
[03:26.77] | you mei you yi ju qing rou de hua |
[03:29.04] | yi ge wen nuan de yan shen, |
[03:30.49] | shi ta liu lian, shi ta dong yao? |
[03:35.49] | wo xiang shuo de shi, K, zai wo men zheng ge cheng zhang de guo cheng li, |
[03:40.39] | shui, jiao guo wo men zen me qu mian dui tong ku cuo zhe he shi bai? |
[03:47.70] | ta bu zai wo men de jia ting jiao yu li, |
[03:50.27] | ta bu zai xiao xue zhong xue da xue de jiao ke shu huo zhe ke cheng li, |
[03:55.05] | ta geng bu zai wo men de da zhong chuan bo li. |
[03:59.14] | jia ting jiao yu xue xiao jiao yu she hui jiao yu |
[04:02.03] | zhi jiao wo men ru he qu zhui qiu zhuo yue, |
[04:05.00] | cong kan ying tao de hua sheng dun xuan liang ci gu de zhang qin |
[04:10.71] | dao ping di qi lou de bi er gai ci, dou shi cheng gong de dian fan. |
[04:16.35] | er qie ji shi shi tan dao shi bai, |
[04:18.54] | mu di zhi shi yao ni jue di fan gong, |
[04:21.16] | zai du zhui qiu chu ren tou di, |
[04:23.35] | pi ru yue wang gou jian de wo xin chang dan, xi xue chi ru, |
[04:28.48] | pi ru nei ge zhan bai de guo wang kan jian zhi zhu ru he jie wang, ta de bu qu bu nao. |
[04:36.87] | wo men pin ming di xue xi ru he cheng gong chong ci yi bai mi, |
[04:40.62] | dan shi mei you ren jiao guo wo men: |
[04:42.42] | pi ru shuo ni die dao de shi hou, zen me die de you zun yan |
[04:48.51] | ni de xi gai po de xue rou mo hu de shi hou, |
[04:52.33] | zen me qing xi zi ji de shang kou zen me bao za |
[04:57.22] | ni tong de wu fa ren shou de shi hou, |
[04:58.98] | yong shen me yang de biao qing qu mian dui bie ren |
[05:03.39] | ni yi tou zai xia de shi hou, |
[05:05.69] | zen me zhi liao nei xin tang xue de chuang tong, |
[05:09.14] | zen me huo de xin ling shen ceng de ping jing, |
[05:14.25] | zai ni de xin xiang bo li yi yang sui le yi di de shi hou, ni zen me shou shi? |
[05:22.42] | shui jiao guo wo men, zai die dao de shi hou, |
[05:25.59] | zen yang de yong gan cai zhen zheng you yong? |
[05:29.46] | shen me yang de zhi hui cai neng du guo? |
[05:32.97] | die dao, you zen me yang ke yi bian cheng zou de geng yuan de li liang? |
[05:39.19] | shi bai, wei shi me wang wang ke yi bian cheng ren sheng de xiu xing? |
[05:46.27] | wei shi me die dao guo de ren, geng shen ke, er qie geng zhen cheng? |
[05:53.92] | wo men dou mei you xue guo. |
[05:57.85] | wo zai xiang, ru guo zhe ge she hui ceng jing |
[06:00.46] | gei na ge shi wu sui de hai zi shang guo zhe yang de ke cheng, |
[06:04.85] | hui bu hui ta liu lian wo men, yi ji wo men tou shang na pian lan se de tian |
[06:11.00] | na yang de ji hui shi bu shi duo yi dian dian? |
[06:15.00] | xian zai ni ye die dao le. ni de xiu xing kai shi. |
[06:22.26] | zai ni yu shi ge jue de xiu xing shi wai, |
[06:26.07] | you hen duo ren xi wang shao gei ni yi ju qing rou de hua |
[06:30.13] | yi ge wen nuan de yan shen |
[06:32.89] | yi ge jie shi de yong bao, |
[06:36.45] | wo men dou zai zhe li, deng zhe ni. |
[06:39.26] | ke shi xiu xing de lu zong shi gu du de, |
[06:42.97] | yin wei zhi hui bi ran shi lai zi gu du. |
[00:01.28] | wǒ yǒu yí gè hǎo péng you, |
[00:03.69] | yǒu yì tiān wǒ men tū rán tīng shuō |
[00:05.16] | Ta bèi jī yā jìn jiàn tái wān fǎ lǜ cí huì, |
[00:09.77] | bù guǎn Ta shì qīng bái de huò zhě shì yǒu zuì de, |
[00:15.06] | yīn wèi fā shēng zài Ta de shēn shàng, |
[00:17.25] | cái ràng wǒ zhāng kāi yǎn jīng kàn dào le |
[00:18.98] | suǒ wèi de jī yā de guò chéng yǐ jí tā de zhěng gè zhì dù. |
[00:25.15] | wǒ fā xiàn, zài sī fǎ de gōng zhèng hé dú lì shàng |
[00:29.77] | hǎo xiàng hái yǒu hěn duō kě zuò de shì qíng. |
[00:32.58] | dàn shì, bù guǎn zěn me yàng, |
[00:34.86] | zài dāng shí wú fǎ gēn Ta gōu tōng |
[00:37.97] | yě wú fǎ gěi Ta dài lái rèn hé wēn nuǎn de shí hòu, |
[00:41.83] | wǒ jiù tòu guò zhè piān wén zhāng lái gěi Ta yì diǎn zhī chí. |
[00:46.67] | |
[00:48.50] | diē dǎo jì K |
[00:53.40] | bù jiǔ yǐ qián, yǒu yí gè xīn wén zhèn dòng le zhěng gè xiāng gǎng, |
[00:58.69] | yí gè bù kān kǎn kě de mǔ qīn, |
[01:01.36] | bǎ tā shí suì duō yì diǎn de liǎng gè hái zi kǔn bǎng le shǒu jiǎo, |
[01:06.52] | cóng hěn gāo de lóu shàng pāo luò, rán hòu zì jǐ tiào xià qù. |
[01:12.73] | jīn tiān zǎo shàng tái wān de xīn wén, |
[01:15.51] | shuō shì yǒu yí gè shí wǔ suì de guó sān xué shēng |
[01:19.69] | zài tā zì jǐ xué xiào de cè suǒ lǐ, |
[01:21.89] | yòng yí gè sù jiāo dài tào zài zì jǐ tóu shàng, zì shā le. |
[01:27.70] | dú dào zhè yàng de xīn wén, |
[01:29.60] | wǒ zǒng bù rěn de qù dú xì jié. |
[01:32.69] | yǎn shàng bào zhǐ, zǒu chū mén, |
[01:36.12] | huī mēng méng de tiān, xià zhe xì yǔ. yǐ jīng lián xià le sān tiān de yǔ, |
[01:42.44] | zǎo shàng xǐng lái shí, kàn xiàng chuāng wài, |
[01:45.22] | nóng nóng de wù jǐn jǐn suǒ zhù le zhěng gè chéng shì. |
[01:50.97] | zhè gè shí wǔ suì de hái zi, zài tā rén shēng zuì hòu de sān tiān lǐ tou, |
[01:56.45] | suǒ kàn jiàn de shì yí gè huī mēng méng shī lín lín hán qì qìn rén de shì jiè. |
[02:03.24] | zhè àn dàn de sān tiān zhī zhōng, |
[02:05.97] | yǒu méi yǒu rén yōng bào guò tā? |
[02:08.56] | yǒu méi yǒu rén fǔ mō guò tā de tóu fà, duì tā shuō:" hái zi, nǐ hǎo kě ài"? |
[02:14.88] | yǒu méi yǒu rén gēn tā tóng zǒu yī duàn huí jiā de lù? |
[02:19.63] | yǒu méi yǒu rén fā jiǎn xùn gěi tā, yuē tā zhè gè zhōu mò qù tī qiú? |
[02:24.59] | yǒu méi yǒu rén duì tā wēi xiào guò, |
[02:26.69] | rán hòu chóng chóng dì pāi tā jiān bǎng shuō:" méi guān xì a, zhè suàn shén me ne?" |
[02:32.53] | yǒu méi yǒu rén gēn tā zài MSN shàng gēn tā liáo guò tiān kāi guò wán xiào? |
[02:37.63] | yǒu méi yǒu rén tā fā guò yī zé jiǎn xùn, shuō:" hēi, nǐ jīn tiān zěn me le?" |
[02:44.27] | zài nà gè sān tiān zhī zhōng, |
[02:46.31] | yǒu méi yǒu nǎ yī ge rén de míng zì bèi tā xiě zài bǐ jì běn lǐ, |
[02:49.79] | tā céng jīng yí dù dòng niàn xiǎng qù hé duì fāng tòng kū yī chǎng? |
[02:55.46] | yǒu méi yǒu mǒu yí gè diàn huà hào mǎ bèi tā shū rù shǒu jī, |
[02:59.87] | tā céng jīng yí dù yóu yù yào bú yào, |
[03:03.56] | yào bú yào bō nà gè diàn huà qù shuō yī shuō xīn lǐ de hài pà? |
[03:11.33] | nà tiān zǎo shàng shí wǔ suì de tā jué jué dì chū mén zhī qián, |
[03:17.37] | zhuō shàng yǒu méi yǒu zǎo diǎn? chú fáng lǐ yǒu méi yǒu shēng yīn? |
[03:23.52] | cóng jiā mén dào xiào mén de yí lù shàng, |
[03:26.77] | yǒu méi yǒu yī jù qīng róu de huà |
[03:29.04] | yí gè wēn nuǎn de yǎn shén, |
[03:30.49] | shǐ tā liú liàn, shǐ tā dòng yáo? |
[03:35.49] | wǒ xiǎng shuō de shì, K, zài wǒ men zhěng gè chéng zhǎng de guò chéng lǐ, |
[03:40.39] | shuí, jiào guò wǒ men zěn me qù miàn duì tòng kǔ cuò zhé hé shī bài? |
[03:47.70] | tā bù zài wǒ men de jiā tíng jiào yù lǐ, |
[03:50.27] | tā bù zài xiǎo xué zhōng xué dà xué de jiào kē shū huò zhě kè chéng lǐ, |
[03:55.05] | tā gèng bù zài wǒ men de dà zhòng chuán bō lǐ. |
[03:59.14] | jiā tíng jiào yù xué xiào jiào yù shè huì jiào yù |
[04:02.03] | zhǐ jiào wǒ men rú hé qù zhuī qiú zhuō yuè, |
[04:05.00] | cóng kǎn yīng táo de huá shèng dùn xuán liáng cì gǔ de zhāng qín |
[04:10.71] | dào píng dì qǐ lóu de bǐ ěr gài cí, dōu shì chéng gōng de diǎn fàn. |
[04:16.35] | ér qiě jí shǐ shì tán dào shī bài, |
[04:18.54] | mù dì zhǐ shì yào nǐ jué dì fǎn gōng, |
[04:21.16] | zài dù zhuī qiú chū rén tóu dì, |
[04:23.35] | pì rú yuè wáng gōu jiàn de wò xīn cháng dǎn, xǐ xuě chǐ rǔ, |
[04:28.48] | pì rú něi gè zhàn bài de guó wáng kàn jiàn zhī zhū rú hé jié wǎng, tā de bù qū bù náo. |
[04:36.87] | wǒ men pīn mìng dì xué xí rú hé chéng gōng chōng cì yī bǎi mǐ, |
[04:40.62] | dàn shì méi yǒu rén jiào guò wǒ men: |
[04:42.42] | pì rú shuō nǐ diē dǎo de shí hòu, zěn me diē dé yǒu zūn yán |
[04:48.51] | nǐ de xī gài pò dé xuè ròu mó hu de shí hòu, |
[04:52.33] | zěn me qīng xǐ zì jǐ de shāng kǒu zěn me bāo zā |
[04:57.22] | nǐ tòng dé wú fǎ rěn shòu de shí hòu, |
[04:58.98] | yòng shén me yàng de biǎo qíng qù miàn duì bié rén |
[05:03.39] | nǐ yī tóu zāi xià de shí hòu, |
[05:05.69] | zěn me zhì liáo nèi xīn tǎng xuè de chuāng tòng, |
[05:09.14] | zěn me huò dé xīn líng shēn céng de píng jìng, |
[05:14.25] | zài nǐ de xīn xiàng bō lí yí yàng suì le yī dì de shí hòu, nǐ zěn me shōu shí? |
[05:22.42] | shuí jiào guò wǒ men, zài diē dǎo de shí hòu, |
[05:25.59] | zěn yàng de yǒng gǎn cái zhēn zhèng yǒu yòng? |
[05:29.46] | shén me yàng de zhì huì cái néng dù guò? |
[05:32.97] | diē dǎo, yòu zěn me yàng kě yǐ biàn chéng zǒu dé gèng yuǎn de lì liàng? |
[05:39.19] | shī bài, wèi shí me wǎng wǎng kě yǐ biàn chéng rén shēng de xiū xíng? |
[05:46.27] | wèi shí me diē dǎo guò de rén, gēng shēn kè, ér qiě gèng zhēn chéng? |
[05:53.92] | wǒ men dōu méi yǒu xué guò. |
[05:57.85] | wǒ zài xiǎng, rú guǒ zhè gè shè huì céng jīng |
[06:00.46] | gěi nà gè shí wǔ suì de hái zi shàng guò zhè yàng de kè chéng, |
[06:04.85] | huì bú huì tā liú liàn wǒ men, yǐ jí wǒ men tóu shàng nà piàn lán sè de tiān |
[06:11.00] | nà yàng de jī huì shì bú shì duō yì diǎn diǎn? |
[06:15.00] | xiàn zài nǐ yě diē dǎo le. nǐ de xiū xíng kāi shǐ. |
[06:22.26] | zài nǐ yǔ shì gé jué de xiū xíng shì wài, |
[06:26.07] | yǒu hěn duō rén xī wàng shāo gěi nǐ yī jù qīng róu de huà |
[06:30.13] | yí gè wēn nuǎn de yǎn shén |
[06:32.89] | yí gè jiē shi de yōng bào, |
[06:36.45] | wǒ men dōu zài zhè lǐ, děng zhe nǐ. |
[06:39.26] | kě shì xiū xíng de lù zǒng shì gū dú de, |
[06:42.97] | yīn wèi zhì huì bì rán shì lái zì gū dú. |